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Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Tuesday - 7 October 2008

Assalaamualaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh!

First off, I’d like to say EID MUBARAK to everyone… we totally had a blast alhamdulillah. We had ~20 family members staying at the house and loved it. Eid day, we had 40+ people in the house! I hope you all had an awesome Eid too.

So out of my stupidity, I advertised my blog in the wrong places so this blog inshaAllah will take somewhat of a turn, since it’s public, but I suppose I could still post up picture albums of places I’ve been.

I’ve made another blog specifically for family and friends, and not the general public so inshaAllah I hope that works out just fine. I’m excited but I don’t know if I’ll be able to keep up with both! :)

Au revoir for now!

Assalaamualaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh

Some pix:
My favorite cat, same nickname, Chottu

Sunset at the Alumni Iftar at UH (9/25/08):

Prayer in the middle of Six Flags:

Pure submission, traveller prayer at Six Flags Music Mill:

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Cities I’ve Visited [update]

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Monday - 29 September 2008

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Another “IOU” post

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Wednesday - 24 September 2008

Assalaamualaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh

I have so much to write about… there are so many crazy stories from the past couple weeks…

After Saturday [from going to a friend's house for iftar] and today [Fast-a-thon- praying in congregation & seeing my friends] I feel a teeny bit better about being in Houston… only when I called Dadajaan to let him know we’re leaving UH, he [jokingly] asked me where I went and why in the world would I go for iftar so far away lol he had already given me permission so I had to remind him of that. When I got home, he said, “That’s all, right?” Again, I had to remind him I’mma be out pretty much every day of the week, all of which I wrote on his calendar while sitting in front of him… he even read it out loud once I was done.

Alhamdulillah, he makes life fun and interesting… and he cares

:)

Much more to come inshaAllah

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Ramadan and Eid Message

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Tuesday - 23 September 2008

Ramadan and Eid Message
By Imam Zaid Shakir

As-Salaam ‘Alaikum wa Rahmatullah, Ramadan began with great expectations. Our beloved Prophet (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) informed us that the Satans have been chained, the Gates of Allah’s Mercy have been opened, the Gates of Hell have been closed. Many of us vowed to take advantage of this truly blessed time to regain the sweetness that we have previously known in our worship. Similarly, we vowed to reform our relationship with Allah, and to repair severed or damaged ties with our fellow Muslims. Now Ramadan has passed on. We should all seriously ask ourselves, “Have we accomplished our spiritual objectives this Ramadan?”Ramadan comes and like the days of our lives it passes through stages. Those stages are poetically mirrored by the waxing and waning of its moon. It is related that our Prophet (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) said concerning Ramadan, “Its beginning is mercy, its middle is forgiveness, and its ending is liberation from the Hellfire.” (Ibn Khuzaymah, al-Sahih, vol. 3, no. 191) If we take time to reflect, I’m sure that all of us will admit that we do not adequately appreciate the magnitude of Allah’s Mercy. He, the Exalted, says in His Noble Scripture, “I afflict whomsoever I please with My punishment. As for My Mercy, it encompasses everything.” [VII: 156]

Perhaps the greatest mercy that Allah has bestowed upon humanity is sending unto us His Blessed Messenger, Muhammad (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam). Allah informs us concerning His Messenger, “We have only sent you as a Mercy to All Worlds.” [XXI: 107] The Messenger Himself said, “Rather I am a blessed, guiding Mercy.” We oftentimes pride ourselves on the strictness of our adherence to the way of this blessed Messenger (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) in various aspects of our lives. However, are we emulating Him by trying to be merciful to our fellow man? If we aren’t, we should understand that our adherence to His Sunnah is wanting.

We have often mentioned a principle which states that Allah’s recompense to His servants is reflective of the deeds which the servants undertake for the Allah’s sake (al-Jazaa’ min Jins al-‘Amal). For example, Allah mentions in the Qur’an, “If you help Allah’s Religion, He will help you.” [XLVII: 7] Similarly, “Is the reward for good ever anything other than good.” [LV: 60] Likewise, “Don’t be like those who forgot about Allah, and He caused them to forget about the best interest of their own souls.” [LIX: 19] His Messenger (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) said, “Allah will continue to help the servant as long as the servant is helping his brother.” ( Muslim, al-Sahih, no. 2699; Ahmad, al-Musnad, vol. 2, no. 252, Abu Dawud, al-Sunan, no. 3643, and others.)

This principle is also applicable in the area of Allah’s Mercy. The Prophet (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) said, “The merciful ones will be shown mercy by the all-Merciful (Allah). Be merciful to those on Earth, Allah will be merciful to you.” Hence, if our homes, Masjids, communities, and other social institutions are torn with dissention and strife, we should seriously examine the nature of our Islam.

The husband and wife should be a source of Mercy to each other. Allah says in His Noble Book, “Among His Signs is that He has created for you from yourselves spouses, in order that you dwell together with them in Peace and tranquility. And He has made between you Love and Mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who do reflect.” [XXX: 21] The parents should be merciful to their children. Similarly, the children should be merciful to their parents. Perhaps the greatest example of the merciful child is that of Isma’il (‘Alayhi al-Salaam). When informed by his father, Ibrahim (‘Alayhi al-Salaam), that he was to sacrifice him, he mercifully responded, “Oh, father! Do that which you have been commanded. You will find me, Insha Allah, amongst the patient.” [XXXVII: 102]

We should similarly be a source of Mercy to our fellow believers. Our beloved Prophet (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) said, “The similitude of the believers in their mutual love, their mutual mercy, and their mutual affection, is like a single body. If any part of it complains of an injury, the entire body responds with sleeplessness and fever.” (Muttafaqun ‘Alayhi) This narration emphasizes the fact that we are a merciful people. We are a Merciful people whose mercy shouldn’t be confined to our immediate circle of associates and acquaintances. Rather it should extend to the entire Ummah.

We have all been blessed to gather on the ‘Eid day in safety and security. We should never forget those who are gathering in the shadow of tanks and cannons. We should never forget those noble men, women, and children whose ‘Eid Salat could be interrupted at any moment by a shower of tear gas or bullets. Our Mercy to them lies in our transcending the oftentimes petty and trivial differences and issues that divide us in order to become a unified, viable, and positive force of change and sanity in this world.

On this ‘Eid day, we will enjoy the blessings of ample and variegated food. We should never forget those Muslims who literally know no Iftar. For many Muslims, daily existence is a continuous fast. We should constantly be thinking of meaningful ways to improve their lot. However, we should also be asking ourselves, “Have we adequately expressed our thanks to Allah for the many Blessing He has heaped upon us?”

If the beginning of Ramadan is Mercy, its middle forgiveness, and its ending liberation from the Hellfire; its aftermath should be thankfulness. It is interesting to note that after mentioning the fast, and some of its rulings, Allah mentions the gratitude that the believer should express. He ends those verses in Sura al-Baqara by stating, “…in order that you complete the designated days (of fasting), and extol the greatness of Allah for that which He has guided you to, that perhaps you will give thanks.” [II: 185] Knowing that Allah has opened the Gates of His Mercy for us during this blessed month, that He has chained the Satans, knowing that He has multiplied every good deed we do countless times, should we not express our thanks?

We should further know what it means when we say that the end of Ramadan is liberation from the Hellfire. Ibn ‘Abbas (Radiyallahu ‘anhuma) relates that the Prophet (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) said, “Every night of Ramadan at the time of Iftar, Allah liberates a million people from the Hellfire. When Jumu’ah arrives, hourly He liberates a million people from the Hellfire, all of them deserving to be punished therein. When the last day of Ramadan comes, He liberates on that day alone, a number equal to the number that He liberated from the beginning of the month.” (This Hadith is produced by Salamah bin Shabib and others. It is mentioned by Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali in Lata’if al-Ma’arif, p. 380.)

For all of this, Allah only asks one thing from us: that we thank him. “When your Lord proclaimed, ‘If you were to thank Me, I will increase you (in my blessings); and if you were to fail to thank Me, know that My Punishment is severe.’ ” [XIV:7] We should know that our thanks for these blessings lies in continuing our worship and exertion after Ramadan. This is in following our Prophet (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) in a most excellent way. When asked by ‘Aisha (Radiyallahu ‘anha) why He was exerting himself so arduously in worship, when Allah had forgiven any mistakes He may have committed; He responded by saying, “Should I not then love to be a thankful servant.” (Mutaffaqun ‘Alayhi)

Now, Allah’s Messenger (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) has informed us that those who have fasted and stood in prayer at night during this month, with sincere faith, anticipating a reward from Allah, have had their sins forgiven. Should we not be thankful servants. And should we not love to express that thanks as our Messenger Muhammad (Sallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam) expressed it. Namely, by continuing to be diligent and dutiful in our worship of Allah.

Yes, blessed Ramadan has ended. However, its passing should not witness the end of our exertion in worship. We should continue our night prayers, and we should fast voluntarily, at least three days each month, after the six days of Shawwal. This Din is the embodiment of all virtue, the epitome of all goodness. Don’t let your share of this good be that it begins and ends with Ramadan.

‘Eid Mubarak!

http://www.themodernreligion.com/ramadan/zaid-shakir.html

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France: I O U Pix

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Tuesday - 16 September 2008

So it crossed my mind while I was still in Kuwait… I didn’t know how I could convince my mom to let us go. I mentioned it to Baji when I got to England and she was down for it. Spontaneously, I asked my mom if we could go and she said yes!! We sort of started planning it out and seeing prices of hotels and travel. Eurotunnel tickets were not bad. Hotels were iffy. When I told my cuz Zakaria that we’re coming, he told us to stay the night at his house. His mom already started preparing for our visit :) A few days later, my mom changed her mind and said we can’t go…

The night before it we wanted to leave, she said to go ahead and go because his mom probably had prepared food and made arangements for us. I was trying to book a Eurotunnel return ticket with my credit card. After the confirmation of payment page failed to load three times, the prices jumped to DOUBLE! I got soo frustrated. The thing was that Zakaria didn’t have work on Sunday and Monday but did on Tuesday so he really preferred for us to arrive on Sunday, chill, and show us Paris on Monday… too bad it became too expensive, I went ahead and booked the ticket for Monday and the return on Tuesday. It finally went through when I used Internet Explorer (vs. Firefox!)…

Anyway, Sunday was visit London day + preparation day. We did our grocery shopping in London, brought the stuff back to Milton Keynes, made tuna pasta, sandwiches, and fruit salad for the trip. We didn’t get any sleep and had to leave the next morning at 7:30am to get petrol and make it to Folkestone by 9:50am. The Eurotunnel arrived (only a 35min duration) in Calais at 11:55pm. We bought a map of Paris central and headed to the Eiffel Tower where we’d meet Zak. After much struggle and crazy driving, we finally got to the Eiffel Tower around 4ish, prayed Dhuhr and Asr, txted Zak, withdrew some €’s, looked around and waited for Zak to finally arrive.

Here are some pix:

Tout means all! lol

The train you drive into

Driving through the train!

^so basically you stop at a station thing, print your ticket, hang it from the rearview mirror, follow the signs, and drive into the train from the side. Drive all the way down and park behind the car in front. When it’s time to get out, the carriage separaters open up and you can drive out (from the side).

259 km to Paris

The laughing cows of France :)

National Assembly, no we didn’t stop to see it, just took a pic from the car

The back of the Eiffel Tower [personally I think the stars are tacky]

The front of the Eiffel Tower [from the park side]

From under the Eiffel Tower, they had a break-dancing show [also have a vid of this]

Dunno but this is where we shopped last minute, on some Pyramides street

The grafitti

^ From place to place, the styles stay the same, the letters/language is different, and the message…? It would be interesting to know

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Mummy

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Monday - 15 September 2008

I ♥ my mommy!!!

She’s the best

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Ike

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Sunday - 14 September 2008

Assalaamualaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh

We left for Dallas on Thursday around 2:30pm… we couldn’t risk leaving last minute because we’ve got elderly and handicapped. With 9 people, we needed 2 cars. Driving was pretty boring (and Dadajaan’s music was making me fall asleep), esp. not being able to eat anything made it a teeny bit more difficult but then again, if I hadn’t been fasting, I would have been snacking on unhealthy stuff to keep me awake. Alhamdulillah it only took 7 and 1/2 hrs including bathroom, petrol, and iftar breaks.

It was awesome to finally see my cousins after soo long… I ♥ all 6 of them sooo much

Once again I didn’t get to see Amena. O Amena, when will I see you again?

Anyway, we’re about to leave from here within the hour inshaAllah. I hope to stay awake easily! I’ll go jump on the trampoline for a while and then snack on my skittles for the drive. I hope I can get some coffee from the gas station inshaAllah.

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We watched the news about hurricane Ike throughout the night… I also kept in touch with a few friends and alhamdulillah it wasn’t too bad. The next morning I got a txt from khiddies saying “I survived hurricane ike 08!” lol should I add hurricane Rita? I was on the phone with her (from England) all throughout Rita panicking that something might happen. This time I called her (from Dallas) too calling her crazy for not leaving.

The other few were obsessing over the beautiful weather and actually went out to enjoy it! >(

Houston is blessed

but I still wanna leave, if Allah wills

Qadr Allah wa masha fa’l

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Ramadan Lectures: WHOA– totally mind-blowing

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Wednesday - 10 September 2008

Check this out:

Halaltube-Ramadan

SUBHANALLAH!!

This is a month, the first of which (first 10 days) brings Allah’s mercy, the middle of which (second lot of 10 days) brings His forgiveness and the last of which (last 10 days) brings emancipation from the fire of Hell…

–txt msg

On my way back from England:

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I miss my mommy

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Tuesday - 9 September 2008

I wanna go back

 

If I could I’d go back tomorrow

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I was dropping Danish off to his school for some football game. I was a bit too hyper so I got pulled over cuz I was going 30 in the school zone. Oops. I really wasn’t paying attention to the road so hopefully I’ll learn my lesson. So he went back to his car to do whatever and I looked over at Danish and he was totally freaked out… I couldn’t help but laugh. I told him to calm down.

Anyway, the five-oh (5-0–British terms) told me I was going 30 blah blah and I said “yea I know I’m sorry” so he let me go with a warning and splained me about how my brake lights were messed up… I told him I just got them fixed! and thanks (for not giving me a ticket of course). YEAA OF COURSE!! (sorry inside joke with a person who doesn’t even read my blog)

 

After taraweeh for some reason this one incident crossed my mind.

We had gotten back to Wahid mamoo’s house from the janazah. All the men were at the cemetary burying Shameem mamee’s body. Back at the house, I was looking after Ayoub and really trying to keep him quiet because he tended to say things he shouldn’t or ask things he shouldn’t…

Wahid mamoo arrived… a giant with #2-3 white hair walking through the door, his trousers dirty with brown mud. It had been raining earlier on. I gave him a hug. Ayoub greeted him and inquired: Mamoo, why do you have mud on your trousers? Immediately, I bent down and whispered to Ayoub to stay quiet and not to ask questions right now.

Mamoo didn’t answer. Instead he started crying and continued walking. What was he supposed to say? “I just buried my wife with this mud”? SubhanAllah… I couldn’t hold back my tears. I didn’t hug mamoo for comfort either. I couldn’t let him see me crying. Unfortunately, Kamran walked passed as well and saw me in that state. I told him I was sorry and that I didn’t want him to see me like that. I wanted to blend into the wall… there was no where to go. I just stood next to the bathroom waiting for it to become vacant so that I could wipe my tears and wash my face.

 

May Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala unite her with her family in Jannatul firdaus.

 

I hope he doesn’t read this.

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Heart Wheel Journal!

Posted by khadijahalmusafira on Monday - 8 September 2008

Print it at school/work. Then get it binded for $4 at Office Depot.

www.heartwheeljournal.com

InshaAllah it will still be very beneficial after Ramadan.

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